We met in 2021, on Tinder.

Ruby came first. He was Tammi's long before he was ours, five kilos of orange Angora Persian. Suga, three kilos of white fur and blue eyes and Angora Persian too, was adopted a few months into our relationship. The two of them have been the glue ever since.

We are different in almost every way, but we want the same thing in the end, which is to live as global citizens and see as much of the world as we can.

The date picked itself. The tenth of October is Edward's birthday, and October is the month we count our anniversary from.

We chose the Macquarie Watchtower because it holds two things at once: history and a view. It has stood there a long time, which is how this relationship has felt, and we would like the years ahead to look like what you see from that headland.

1. Three o'clock

   The ceremony begins

   We would be glad if you arrived a little before this. The ceremony itself runs about thirty minutes, and everyone will be standing.

2. Twenty-five to four

   Photographs with us

   Stay for as long as you like. We would love a picture with each of you.

3. Four o'clock

   Farewell

   You are very welcome to head home from here. Thank you for giving us your afternoon.

All times Sydney daylight time

Anzac Parade
La Perouse NSW 2036

A small sandstone tower built in the 1820s on the headland at the end of Anzac Parade, looking out over Botany Bay. It is the oldest building still standing on that shore.

The ground is grass and sandstone and the wind comes straight off the water, so flat shoes and something warm over your shoulders will serve you well.

We are grateful either way, so please just tell us whether you can come. Do leave your WhatsApp number as well, because if it rains we will be moving everyone somewhere dry and that is how we will reach you. And if you cannot be with us on the day, you are very welcome to leave your wishes in the message below.

Your name

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